Sunday, May 29, 2011

Guru Kripa

This is a story told to me by Jasbir Singh, a friend of Ananda Sangha in Gurgaon and the owner of a fabric shop in the Qutab Plaza Mall, a short distance from our Gurgaon ashram.

I was first introduced to Swami Kriyananda in 2004. At that time, I had made kurtas for a few of the Ananda monks and one day a group of them came to my shop and said that Swami Kriyananda wanted to meet me. I had seen him
once before but had never been introduced to him so I asked my husband what he thought I should do. He said, “If a saint invites you to meet him, you should go.” I asked if he would go with me and when he said, “Yes” we went to where Swamiji was living at that time, in the building that is now the Ananda ashram. (Jasbir and her husband, Brigadier Singh, at left.)

Swamiji was very gracious and we were served tea and snacks and we talked about this and that. Finally, Swamiji looked at me and said, “Madam, I am looking for a house and you are going to buy it for me!” You can imagine my surprise. I had just met him and said, “Swamiji, I don't know anything about houses and buildings or about prices and things like that,” but he didn't say anything more about it. I kept wondering what he could mean because I didn't have money to purchase a house if that was what he meant. It was all very strange.

A little bit later, I received a call saying that Swamiji was negotiating with a fellow about a house and was asking if I could come and take part in the conversation. I said I would and went to where they were meeting and was introduced to this man who asked, “Do you recognize me?” At first I didn't but then I remembered him as someone I had not seen in a long time, a man who had lived in a house of my uncle's when I was young and who, many years ago, had caused him lot's of trouble. I immediately called Dharmadas into another room and told him, “Don't have anything to do with this man. He will take your money and cheat you for sure. He's dishonest and not a good man.” After awhile, we went back into the room where this man was speaking with Swamiji. Dharmadas thanked him for coming and told him he would think about their offer but I think the fellow knew I had said something against him because he gave me a dirty look. Swamiji said he was glad I had come because he felt something was not right.

Some days later, I was walking in the neighborhood and I saw a sardar (Sikh man) standing by the gate of a new house. Since I am also Sikh, I said “Hello” and asked if he lived there. “No,” he said, “I am a builder and I have just finished this house.” I was curious so I asked if he would be willing to show it to me, which he did. I liked it immediately and he and I sat down to talk about it. “Sir”, I said “I know nothing about houses and construction but I want to buy this house for a swami and I trust you to help me and to
give me a good, fair price. You must understand that this house will be for a very spiritual man and the money will come from many donors around the world. This is a not a normal buisness deal. The cloth on your head (referring to his turbin) is the same as that on my husband's. We are well known in this neighborhood and if it should come back to us that we have been cheated, I don't know what we would do or how we could show our face. You must help us.” The man was touched because he replied, “One thing is missing. You say many have contributed but I haven't been asked about what my contribution will be. I too will help with this purchase.”

So, we talked about prices and details and eventually Swamiji and the others came to see the house too. They liked it and we went forward with the purchase. This is how Swamiji came to live in Guru Kripa. Afterward, he said, “What's this about not knowing anything about houses. See how you bought this house for me."

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Back in Gurgaon

Sadhana Devi and I shifted last month to Gurgaon from Pune after being away since 2008. In our absence, the Ananda center/ ashram went through significant changes, making our return like coming back to a different place. Even Delhi seems to have changed for the better but my guess is that these transformations are more an outward projection of what has happened within me. I’ve changed. Our time in Pune, living in our own apartment, finding our way in a strange new city, working in the village with all the attendant challenges and making a new set of friends gave both Sadhana Devi and me a broader understanding of India and, perhaps, of ourselves. For that, I’m grateful. I was a little sad to leave Pune but now that I’m in Gurgaon, I realize this is a better place for us to serve and I like it.

Over 25 Westerners were once part of our work in the Gurgaon when we left in 2008, Swamiji was in residence and the place was lively with projects. Now only five Westerners remain (Sadhana Devi, myself, Daya, Keshava and Dhyana). The monks and Swami’s staff shifted to Pune and the rest headed home, leaving those who remain with a bigger teaching and organizational load. Our duties include not only Gurgaon but also functions in the entire NCR (National Capitol Region) where we have a vibrant center in Noida on the other side of Delhi and ongoing classes in the capitol itself. Of the six houses once needed in our DLF Phase 1 neighborhood, only the ashram/center (B10/8) and Guru Kripa (Swamiji’s home) remain with talk now of Guru Kripa possibly being sold to further the project in Pune. With so much downsizing, you would be forgiven to think our work in the NCR has regressed, but surprisingly, it hasn’t. That's why we were called back. It's simply changed. In fact, in some ways things are better here than ever though the live-in ashram population is definitely smaller. In the absence of the Americans and Europeans, local devotees have stepped up, a sign a the natural maturation of our work in India.

When the Westerners were here, we had at our disposal a large crew of volunteers willing to do whatever was necessary to plant seeds of Ananda’s work in India. On top of volunteering, they also paid for room and board, giving a tremendous boost to the ashram. Small businesses and outreach programs were started, a legal and financial structure put into place and we learned the ropes of living in a foreign land, but it was always with an intention of one day turning the work over to local devotees, replacing foreigners with locals. Little by little, this has happened much in the same way as it did in Italy.

We now have an extended family of Indian devotees who participate regularly in the Gurgaon ashram with some leading classes and others helping with the day to day operations. Whereas the first Westerners were without family responsibilities, the same isn’t true for the Indians. Most are householders with children, so living in the ashram isn’t an option, but they treat Ananda as their spiritual home and come by for functions from the neighborhoods nearby.

The same is true for our group in Noida on the other side of Delhi, led by Mr. Gupta and his family. Since we left, they’ve grown into a strong Ananda Center with their own space in the basement of a residence in a quiet neighborhood, more central to where their members live than before. There, a solid core of devotees participates regularly with only occasional teaching help from those of us in Gurgaon. Most of the programs are presented by local teachers who have graduated from our Teacher Training Course. In central Delhi, Daya and Keshava lead weekly satsangs and classes in rented classroom space.

One of the most practical measures of commitment is financial. Are people willing to support a work that serves them? For Gurgaon, the answer has been "Yes!" The change over the last year has been revolutionary. In the first half of 2010, eight ashram members departed for homes in America and Europe, leaving a void in the Ananda Gurgaon’s aura and some questioning about whether we should move elsewhere because of our financial state. Up until then, the center had been running a significant monthly deficit and the gap between income and expenses seemed impossible to bridge. We had few local, consistent contributors and our efforts to establish a steady fundraising effort always seemed to stall. Perhaps locals didn't feel connected enough to contribute or perhaps they didn't perceive a need. Or, maybe they simply weren't asked in the right way. Whatever the case, something needed to change because with Swamiji shifting his focus to Los Angeles, donations from overseas dried up and it became essential for the Gurgaon Center to meet its monthly expenses without outside subsidies. The Gurgaon leadership took the following steps.

1. It was imperative to trim costs, scrutinize all items and eliminate waste. The most significant decision was to give up Shanti House, our guest facility. This was painful and much debated but it was draining us.
2. The Center increased its monthly income through raised rents, businesses paying for space and services previously provided free, and by the staff offering many more classes at higher rates. None of these were painless.
3. While some thought it time to contract, Nayaswami Dhyana decided to do the opposite and initiated a remodeling of the entire basement into a new, magnetic Ananda Center to attract new energy. Whereas before half the basement was used for book and material storage, it is now a beautiful temple, an income producing boutique and a Sangha Office space. Books are now stored off-site in another neighborhood.
4. Finally and most importantly, a new, energetic program of “Supporting Membership” was initiated to attract local devotees willing to support the Center. From a base of zero in early 2010, we now have over 30 Gurgaon Supporters who make significant monthly donations to keep the Center functioning. An important element of this campaign was greater personal contact with members and the establishment of a sense that the Ananda Center is now theirs.

The changes had a dramatic effect upon the energy at the Center and our finances. The entire basement is now in use, open for devotees at all times. A new altar and murti (statue) of Babaji was installed and whereas before we had one class each weekend, we sometimes now have three or four, often led by local teachers, a weekly Gita Study Group on Thursday evenings and a Kriyaban Discussion Group on Fridays. If we could to attract students on weeknights, we’d do even more, but Indians rarely attend weeknight classes as they do in America. By God's Grace, we are now paying all our bills and beginning to tithe to the larger work of Ananda India.

Ananda's work in the NCR still has a long way to go and we recognize our ability to reach people beyond the NCR has declined. We simply don’t have the teachers, time or funds to travel and host programs beyond our local area. The disciples in Pune do a good job in their city and travel to Mumbai and Bangalore, but there is much, much more we could do had we the necessary resources. For the moment, our focus in the NCR is to stablize our foundation by building a larger core of Supporting Members. In time, this should allow us to hire one or two local staff to free up
energy for us to reach out in a larger way. An Ananda Centers Department may be the next step in this direction, perhaps followed by new outreach programs in selected cities like we did in 2007/08.

As I mentioned, the possibility of Swamiji selling Guru Kripa is in the air. He is scheduled to return to India after the monsoon and I expect he'll make a final decision then. It’s a very nice house and has the blessings of Swamiji’s years there, so some would like to see it preserved in the Ananda work. On the other hand, it represents a considerable asset that might be put to better use elsewhere. The house serves the Gurgaon group as an extra classroom, a meeting venue and as a place for guests. Of course, it also is where Swamiji, his staff and Nayaswamis Dharmadas and Nirmala stay when they are here. If it is sold, we'll be sad but at the same time, it may open the door for us to relocate to a building of our own rather than continuing to rent the present ashram house. With Guru Kripa in our possession, it’s difficult to consider moving but once those ties are broken, we might be able to do something “more and better” if we can rally our local support to help us. When one door closes, another opens.

We’d love to have you visit. The ashram has guest spaces available for those who might be passing through Delhi, so please come to see us if you can. I’d especially like to remind you of the short pilgrimages from Gurgaon to spots of interest in north India led by Daya and Keshava Taylor. They regularly visit Babaji’s cave and Rishikesh. In addition, groups go to Yogananda shrines in Kolkata and have recently visited Amritsar, Ladakh, and Badrinath. Most of the pilgrimages are of less than a week, making them easy to fit into local devotees schedules. Once you sign up, of course, you can then spend time with us in Gurgaon. Check out their nice webpage at